premises promises

 

Yes. I do have criticism about patriachy

or even matriarchy. 

or any bad side of over dominating systems, in everything.

what i tried to understand is the cause of fault. 

or the cause of any bad sides that are often bias.

the grey area is always there, on the process to understand all the causes.

about independency. it is about skill-set of every person. it is human being obligation to fulfill their needs by their own. so independency does not related to criticism about patriarchy, or matriarchy, feminism, or any other weird thing on the process. independency is another thing by itself, that everyone should accomplish. while gender role is another thing in society: to be in synergy as a teammate in society or., the very small institution in society, a family. (if you wish to had one)

so to understand what is independency, you have to list the very basic skill-set of human needs, generally, before you get into the gender role. or doing any silly comments for your own ego because you wanted to shut the woman. please boi, finish your own homework and dont let us see how dumb you are. just stay quiet, using your muscles, and saying sweet things like you always do. just stay ssshhhh... and smile. ok.

Ok now, curcol tiimeee~

So independency, is way a bit far from where i am today

i have the option to become one. or to choose or to combine other options that are available for me. i have the option to reject my family supports, or anyone supports if their will is to supress me

so heres few variable of reality or premises that are available for me;

1. i have the power to become independent as i tried to

2. i need room to explore my own creatives calling

3. the time and my energy might be limited if i have to fullfil both on my own

4. but i can do everything on my own, besides i enjoy being alone

5. i can choose and create my own support system and to be in synergy with it

6. i can choose the fastest support that i could have from long time ago but it will surpress me.

7. i might want a friend. a true one.

that is all the premises to be solve. not making any conclusion yet~